More and more here lately, I am finding that the harder you hold on to something the quicker it slides out of reach. I have to ask myself, is it because it is truly that hard to hold on to--is it really that slippery--or is it that there is no value to holding on to it. I'm not going to pretend that I know the answer to it, or that I have it all figured out, because i don't and i probably never will.